Pattern of dating emotionally unavailable men
Avoid someone with a big ego, filled with conceit, who tries to win favor by bragging about who they are or what they have.This is a red flag that signals their low self-esteem and lack of emotional health.In reality, they are debilitated by their own self-criticism and fear of being rejected.
Once the relationship becomes too intimate, they'll cut and run. Look out for the person who is quick to flatter and compliment you without really knowing you. In a discussion about their past relationships, they will denigrate their former partners.For example, if they are rude to a waiter or taxi driver, it may be indicative of their pent-up anger.This is a signal that they are a demanding and emotionally abusive person who will one day turn their anger on you.This type of emotionally unavailable person is commitment-phobic, and not relationship-oriented.They are inflexible and loathe having to compromise.
(Only they can change themselves.) People can be for both healthy and unhealthy reasons.