Dating with colombians
Women are typically there to dance to music that does not encourage them to grind with you, as reggaeton does.Here’s a good one, courtesy of my friend Jessie, a Miami native born to Ecuadorian parents who now has a paisa girlfriend: “If you want to meet up at 7 p.m., set the date for .Saying that though, it is a refreshing change after being an independent woman to have someone make all the decisions for you (for a short while anyway).Don’t expect your plans to fixed either as he may change them at the last-minute as he just “doesn’t feel” like doing what you had originally planned together.If you’re a foreigner, don’t talk about clichés like Pablo Escobar, drugs, violence, or the series “Narcos”.Avoid looking like a pendejo by teasing about cocaine with sugar or flour, unless you want others to laugh because she left you in the middle of the date.So if you’re looking for a date in Medellín, first thing’s first; forget dating an expat.
Having a choice over where you go for dinner, which for some of us coming from a country of equal rights can feel a bit frustrating.
There is no one way to woo them because of individual personalities and all the variables you encounter.
If you are planning to meet a woman at a club, a salsa club is probably the best kind of venue.
If you want a one-woman man, play hard to get and don’t expect your Colombian man to have the same relationship values you have. So date a Colombia man, enjoy the ride and worst case scenario if it all goes wrong, walk away knowing that you’ve been able to improve your Spanish (between the sheets anyway), eat out at some swanky restaurants and be completely wooed by a latino – definitely one for the bucket list.
Finding out if you’re compatible with a Colombian woman can be a complicated endeavor, just like anywhere.
According to some gringos whom I’ve spoken to currently dating paisa women, they don’t even turn up at all, and they have to arrange three dates for the probability of them turning up to at least one.